Following are 6 signs show you relationship strength:
Now I am taking to my peers at ground realities, where I am also a witness to a new Exited Love. And admittedly, as a married man who just celebrated his fifth wedding anniversary (by working all day at office, woohoo!), in start my feelings are jaded for love. Yah I know the all truth about marriage. Believe me that in Happy Marriage the expansive new presents, the remarkable party, and the blissful honeymoon fascinating suite heaving the hot tub in-room does not work. Now a day’s Relationships take on all sorts of different shapes and sizes, with couple selecting not to marry yet live together, or to form non-traditional family units. So, what is the key to a lifelong, lasting relationship? Check out these 6 signs in your relationship and find is it last for a lifetime!
1. Test your Mood
In fact, the real test of a relationship's durability is amazingly simple. A study shows that a team of scientists conducted a test by measuring how happy couples were by showing them pictures of their spouses and questioning them to rate them as either "sad" or "happy". Study proven that couples who took much time ranking the "sad" pictures are heaving a happier unions, while those who quickly find the sad pictures ending up breaking up. The reason behind this is an unconscious level, the couples who finds easily sad mood pictures of their spouses are already suffering from sad mood.
2. You feel good with your partner
I can frankly say that my relationship with my wife has made me a better person. I can still remember that when we meet first, I was a miserably moody, nervous, and indecent person and I took out a lot of my emotions on her. These days, I still effort with those matters, but she has taught me how to "fight fair," and for me she is like a rock which will never leave.
3. Real Happiness start together
It may be a little confusing but infect marriage can make people happy. Some time I also fell trap to the thinking early on in my marriage that my title as a "Husband." was also my tag to happiness. I thought for sure that having a wife who loved me would make me the positive, confident, happy person I longed to be, but lo and behold - that didn't happen. Marriage may be a big source of happiness, but only marriage cannot make you happy.
4. There is no term like Soul mates
Through novels and Movies there are many imaginary terms spreading now a days .Soul mates is one of them. I do not believe in this and also suggest others to be practical and feel alive. In fact, if there is something likes soul mates, and then who are we to take an active part in our relationship? If we are destined then Sad or Happy relationship is our destiny and we have no right to change it but I said no. Unlike the theory of effortless love that soul mates can portray, finding a relationship is a different matter. Personally, I suggest that besides finding soul mates one should ignore each other and start developing compromising and a day will come when you delight in choosing to love same person every day. Without any pressure or considering marriage is end of love you should developed trust within each other and treat your relationship simply but effectively.
5. You should have realistic expectations from your partner
Besides living in dreams your approach towards your partner should be realistic. If your wife forgets your birthday then let her remind and same is in case with you. It didn’t make any difference instead false expectation may harm your emotions. One another thing should be remembered that there is no two person born with same mood or mind so, besides expecting from your spouse’s to perform like you let her to live as natural as she is. Making relationship is much easier but keeping relationship is strong more than rock. Forgiveness is also a gate way to provide happiness to other participant resulting you too will be happy.
6. See Future Dreams Together
Not in a way that keeps you from enjoying the present together, certainly, but in a way that ensures that you will have a combine future. By setting future goals together and making plans for the best kind of life you want to live with your partner and checking in along the way helps to keep you attached as you dream together.
